I love to read and I’ve been wanting to share book reviews with you guys, but just haven’t found the right way. So I decided to try something new, to see how it goes. I’m going to illustrate my favorite quote from a book, and then write up my thoughts. Let me know how you like it, and if there are any books you think I’d enjoy!

(photo by me, hand-lettering by me)

Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg was all over the news, blogs and variety shows a while back. I was hearing such conflicting things about it—some feminists loved it, others hated it, stay-at-home-moms were offended—I decided I had to read it for myself and make up my own mind. In a word, I loved it.

I think Sandberg brought a lot of intelligent insight into a huge problem in our leading companies. She discusses how systemic the problem is from the way we raise our children—little girls are referred to as “bossy”, where boys are called a “leaders”—all the way through to the upper echelons of corporate culture—a top executive not knowing where the ladies restroom is in his own company.

As women we hold ourselves back a lot of the time. Women tend to keep quiet in class even if they know the right answer, and think they scored less on tests than their male peers. I felt it was encouraging and motivating just realizing this harsh self-criticism is natural for me, and something I need to work on and push through.

One of the strongest points in Sandberg’s book, was the fact that we as women really need to stick together. We can be even harsher toward each other than our male associates. It really makes no sense. We are half the population. Imagine what we could accomplish if we worked together!

Lastly, this quote I chose, “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” is something that really resonated with me. There are SO MANY THINGS, where do I start? I think I’ll take some baby steps. The key is to believe in yourself, your goals, your dreams, and not let you stand it your own way. There are plenty of other things that will do that.

Did you read “Lean In”? What were your thoughts?

I downloaded Life After Life for my Kindle after hearing a very compelling interview with the author, Kate Akinson, on NPR not long ago. The book begs the question, what if we chose a different path, or the circumstances changed? The main character, Ursula, dies and is reborn several times during the novel, each time she lives, something changed that saved her. It’s a fascinating concept, and not as confusing as it might sound. I haven’t finished it yet, but so far I’m loving it.

I’m so excited for my Bridal Shower this weekend! M’s parents, sister and grandmother are all flying in from Chicago and Pennsylvania, and my aunt and uncle are driving over from Arizona. It’s going to be a full blown celebration the whole weekend. Besides the shower, we’re going to the spa, and having a big BBQ feast for M’s birthday on Sunday night. His birthday is next Monday, so it’s perfect timing for the whole family to be together. There’s lots to do, but I already feel so supported and loved, I can’t wait.

I’ve never EVER been one to enjoy physical exertion. I avoid it at all costs actually. I’ve probably mentioned that before on this blog, but if not, now you know. However, I joined a local gym recently, and I’m actually starting to get into it. I like a couple of the classes (weight lifting and Pilates especially) and I even ran on the elliptical for 30 minutes on Friday. That’s pretty huge for me. They have a lovely sauna and hot tub and showers, and it definitely helps that my Maid of Honor is also a member and that it’s walking distance from my apartment. We’re trying to go at least twice a week. The best part is that I’m feeling myself get stronger… hopefully I’m looking a bit more toned too. (this bilboard was up in the Hollywood area a while ago and always made me feel guilty.)

My amazing health coach Lacy put me on a food schedule, instead of a traditional diet to loose weight for my wedding. I love it. So far I’ve lost 7-8 pounds in about 2 weeks. I’m also not eating carbs or sugar, but I’ve found that for me at least, it’s more important when I eat than what I eat. And the most amazing part is that I’m not hungry and for the most part I don’t crave all the foods I used too (ie. Pizza). We’ll see how this goes, but so far so good!

I’ve been in a major creative rut lately. It’s so frustrating, and I really had no idea how to get past it. Usually if I was at work, I could ask a co-worker for some help, but now I work by myself. You can’t rush creativity, which was part of the problem. I have eager clients waiting on me, and I felt pressured to deliver something amazing to them. Well, it just doesn’t work that way. But sitting and waiting for the proverbial light bulb wasn’t helping either. So I found out about this exercise “Morning Pages” that Kathleen Shannon has been doing to get her creative juices flowing, and I thought I’d try it too. The excercise is actually from The Artists Way by Julia Cameron and is 3 full pages of free-association writing every morning. I already love to journal, so this isn’t that big of a commitment for me. Now let’s hope it actually works!

Happy Earth Day! I remember in elementary school having a whole week or so dedicated to this holiday. Now that I’m all grown up and in the real world, no one seems to care. Well, I want to bring Earth Day back. I’m going to walk to the gym and the post office today, water my little plants, and maybe even pick up some litter. It’s the thought that counts, right? What are you doing for earth day? Any grad gestures? Or just small acts of goodness?

(all images by me this time… veggies from my juice cleanse a while back, my journal, and a small creek from a hike in Yosemite a couple summers ago)

We’re holding our first LA Blogger Workshop this month! It’s all about Photoshop. Sarah from Very Sarie and I are going to answer any and all questions about the program. If you’re in LA, and thinking about starting a blog, or even if you have no desire to blog and just want some tips on Photoshop, please come! Details are going to be posted on the Facebook group. Leave a comment here if you want to be added.

For the past couple years now I’ve wanted to do a continuing creative project. Something I could focus on for a set amount of time. I’ve had a lot of great ideas, but the time framework was always the challenging part. Daily was too much pressure. Weekly wasn’t flexible enough. Monthly was too flexible. Yearly, well, just forget about it. Last month when I did the Braid ECourse, they suggested framing projects and goals into the quarter system. April starts a Quarter 2 of 2013, and so I’m off on my first project! Just have to figure out what it’s going to be… (the photo above is an example of a project idea I had: take my film camera around, and shoot on a theme, like breakfast.)

I just started reading The Gospel According to Coco Chanel by Karen Karbo. What an incredible woman. I really didn’t know too much about the fashion icon before I started reading. It’s amazing how many of the standard pieces of any woman’s wardrobe can be directly attributed to Chanel’s genius. She’s a fascinating and complex character.

I’ve been reading so much about the book Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg, I had to read it for myself. Sandberg is the COO of Facebook, and arguably one of the most powerful women in the country. I especially admire that she’s gained so much success in the Tech Industry, an industry known for gender imbalance that I also have had personal experience with. So far the book has been very encouraging. I’ll try to post a review once I’ve read the whole thing. Have you read it already? What did you think?

Andrew Belle has been on repeat lately. When I really need to concentrate and get work done, I usually find an artist or album I can just zone out to. The Ladder has been that album for me. His voice reminds me of some of my favorite bands from back in the day, like The Fray and Snow Patrol.

I’m currently feeling a wedding planning lull… All the important stuff is figured out and booked, but it’s too early to start on a lot of the projects. The invites are pretty much designed, but they don’t need to go out until next month. My mom and I went down to the flower mart and fabric district over the weekend to find some cheap plants, sequin fabric and vessels for candles. It was a pretty successful trip. We found a guy in an ally who will build us 50 wooden boxes (like the one pictured above from this beautiful wedding) for $160! I guess I should just relax and enjoy the break. Things are going to get super crazy in a couple months.

Yes people, Tamagotchi is back! I’ve been raising my little alien for 4 or 5 days now and he hasn’t died! So proud… Although I know realize why our teachers hated these guys. They need a lot of attention! Feeding, playing, cleaning up poop… It calls for me every 20 minutes or so. Not sure how long I’ll be able to keep it up, but it’s fun for now.

We rented Perks of Being a Wallflower Friday night from Red Box. Such a great movie! I had anticipated that I would like it, so I bought the book when the movie first came out. Once the film was over, I got down the book and started reading. So far, I think I like the film better… Not sure I’ve ever said that before. But I’ll wait to make final judgement until I’ve read the whole thing.

The Alabama Shakes have been gaining popularity for a while now. I first heard them on KCRW sometime last year. Wow. I love this band so much. Lead singer Brittany Howard is phenomenal. How I wish I could sing like her… actually, she’s kind of living my dream life (being a singer in a soul band). If you’re not familiar with the band, go now and listen!

I’m back from Alt Summit! It was fantastic. I feel inspired, encouraged, and exhausted… It’s going to take a few days to get back to my crazy schedule, but that’s ok. For now I’m trying to relive all the memories, and let all the information absorb.

So I know I just hung out with a lot of bloggers, but I want more! We’re organizing a casual LA blogger meetup this upcoming Sunday, Feb 3 at 10am at Bottega Louie. They have some of the best brunch in town (obsessed with the salmon eggs benedict), and the restaurant is just so beautiful. We’re going to discuss big plans for 2013, so if you’re a local blogger, please join us! (photo via LA I’m Yours)

My future Mother-in-Law sent me a couple books last week, one of which was Meg Keene’s A Practical Wedding. I am obsessed. This book is amazing. Meg distills the whole wedding process to it’s fundamentals—you, your fiancée  and the amazing joy and love surrounding your commitment to one another. Weddings are simple, magical things that don’t need to be brutally expensive. Meg also has a blog by the same name. I am now a devoted follower.

I am so glad to be home. I realized that M and I have kind of been inseparable for the last 5 months. We’ve traveled together, worked together, and duh… lived together. It’s been fantastic, but I didn’t realized how much so until he dropped me off at the airport and I embarked on a little journey by myself. Add to that bad cell reception and a jam packed schedule, and you get a girl who just really wants to spend all day with her man. And that’s what we did yesterday. It was heaven. I loved Alt, and I do think that little bits of separation is necessary for a healthy relationship, but oh man… I am so glad to be home. (Lukas & Suzy took this photo of our apartment as part of our engagement photos! You can find the rest here.)

Today I’ll be attending the Blogshop video class, here in LA! I’ve been dying to explore the video setting on my new camera, and now’s the time. It’s my birthday/Christmas present to myself, and I’m hoping to gain some new skills to take me into the new year. One of the main reasons I wanted to take Blogshop’s video course instead of someone else’s, or just learning from M, is that Bri and Angela will be teaching us how to edit using Photoshop CS6. Learning Final Cut Pro, Premiere or any other editing software was always hurdle for me since I’d have to familiarize myself with a completely foreign interface, set of tools, etc. As you might have guessed, I am pretty good with Photoshop, so I’m hoping that learning how to edit will be second nature. I’m excited to show you all what I’ve learned!

The New Fashioned Wedding arrived in my mailbox bright and early Saturday morning, just in time for my appointment with my florist. The book is a “best-of” Bash, Please’s beautifully designed events. It’s full of inspiration for all brides and any one who loves to throw a good party. I haven’t had the time to completely devour the book yet, but trust me, I will. If you’re in the LA area this week, the Bash girls are doing a book launch party at Urbanic on Thursday (more info here). I’m sad I won’t be able to make it, so let me know how awesome it is!

On of my friends introduced me to Ben Howard a long time ago, but I have completely forgotten who it was (Friend if you’re reading this, please let me know who you are! It’s driving my crazy…). I remember because my friend loved the phrase “happy hearted” in the song Old Pine. I thought it was a good song at the time but for some reason it didn’t stick. And then BAM, I heard the song again a couple weeks ago, and I am in love. I can’t stop listening to this stupid song. It’s stuck in my head. Thank you friend, whoever you are, for what you planted in my brain. Oh yeah, the rest of the album Every Kingdom is wonderful too.

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, by Susan Cain. I started this book while in the Bahamas after watching Susan Cain’s wonderful TED Talk. I am an introvert who has learned over the years how to function and play nice in an extroverted world. Growing up people thought I was stuck up, or mean because I didn’t want to talk to anybody. In preschool the teachers worried my mom because I preferred to play alone. So naturally I find this topic very interesting. I suggest this book for fellow introverts, and for any extroverts with introverts in their lives.

Nikon 50mm, 1.8g Nikkor Lens for Sale! I’m upgrading to a camera that can shoot video, so I’m selling this beautiful 50mm, 1.8g lens (I’ve already sold the camera body). Seriously guys this lens changed photography for me. Before this lens, I never understood why when I did everything right, my photos still looked just “ok”. A good lens takes your photos to the next level. The first thing I did when I got my new camera, was to buy a 50mm for it. I can not live without this lens. It is especially good for table top photography, so if you’re doing product shots, or food, you need this. Email me at amhabbershaw[at]gmail[dot]com if you’re interested. Christmas is coming, so don’t wait too long!

This Warm December by Brushfire Records is one of my favorite Christmas albums. And now they have 2 volumes! If you like folky, indie music, this is your christmas album. It’s produced by Jack Johnson’s record label, so that should explain why it’s so freakin’ good. They have a lot of original songs, but some of my favorites are the classics like Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer reimagined in a contemporary style.

Pumpkin is everywhere right now. It’s a kind of flavor I never really crave except during the fall. Once winter comes around, I’m so sick of it, I never want to see a pumpkin ever again. But for now I’m enjoying it. I made this delicious pumpkin bread last week, and had my first pumpkin spice latte yesterday. Oh and Trader Joe’s pumpkin ice cream is out of this world.

I’ve been a fan of Brandi Carlile for a long time now (I might have even blogged about her before). Basically she’s awesome and so is her new album, Bear Creek. It’s a bit more light hearted and country than her previous work, which is usually not my style (you know how I love the depressing folk rock) but I like it  nonetheless. Brandi’s voice is just so raw and honest, I think I will love anything she does.

One of my favorite songs from Bear Creek, That Wasn’t Me

The Casual Vacancy is the newest book by our hero J.K. Rowling. I’m only at the beginning, but I like it so far. It’s a little confusing because there are so many characters and each short chapter is told by a different point of view. But it’s an interesting story, and Rowling’s familiar writing style shines through.