First things first… It’s raining right now. Why am I so excited? Well, because it hasn’t rained all year! Instead of April showers bringing May flowers, April heat brought May FIRES! Also rain is one of my favorite things ever. I’ll admit the gloomy, cold weather yesterday did not create an ideal Cinco de Mayo. I did not get my tan on as I hoped. Instead we holed up in my parents house with layers of clothing while trying to enjoy icy margaritas. But today it’s raining and all is right with the world. (photo from my front porch)

You guys know Jake Bugg? He’s like a cross between young Bob Dylan and young George Harrison. I LOVE HIM. Seriously, so good. His English accent doesn’t hurt either. Once I’m finished with my Cold & Raining mix tape (see above) I will probably listen to Bugg the rest of the day.

I’m barely holding onto this wedding diet plan. It’s hard you guys. Especially when I live with a man who loves meat, cheese and bread and can eat it all 24/7 without thinking twice. Ughh… so annoying. When he’s working and I’m home alone all day, I’m fine. But he was not working last week, and it took all of my willpower not to completely fall off the wagon. I didn’t loose any weight, but I only gained one pound, so I’m counting this as a victory. It could have been so much worse. This week, I’m determined to loose that pound, and get back to it. Wish me luck! (photo taken during breakfast last weekend)

My bridal shower is coming up in a couple weeks! I’m beyond excited for some girl time with the women closest to me. We’ve kicked up the planning into high-gear making crafting lists, seating charts, and menus. I know I probably shouldn’t be so involved in this, but I just can’t help myself. Wherever there’s a party, I want to be involved. I just get so much joy out of it, I kind of forget that it’s for me.

Here’s the inspiration board for the bridal shower. I’m actually not that much of a “pink person”, but this time, it just seemed right. And gold… always, gold.

No. 1   //   No. 2   //   No. 3   //   No. 4   //   No. 5   //   No. 6

My amazing health coach Lacy put me on a food schedule, instead of a traditional diet to loose weight for my wedding. I love it. So far I’ve lost 7-8 pounds in about 2 weeks. I’m also not eating carbs or sugar, but I’ve found that for me at least, it’s more important when I eat than what I eat. And the most amazing part is that I’m not hungry and for the most part I don’t crave all the foods I used too (ie. Pizza). We’ll see how this goes, but so far so good!

I’ve been in a major creative rut lately. It’s so frustrating, and I really had no idea how to get past it. Usually if I was at work, I could ask a co-worker for some help, but now I work by myself. You can’t rush creativity, which was part of the problem. I have eager clients waiting on me, and I felt pressured to deliver something amazing to them. Well, it just doesn’t work that way. But sitting and waiting for the proverbial light bulb wasn’t helping either. So I found out about this exercise “Morning Pages” that Kathleen Shannon has been doing to get her creative juices flowing, and I thought I’d try it too. The excercise is actually from The Artists Way by Julia Cameron and is 3 full pages of free-association writing every morning. I already love to journal, so this isn’t that big of a commitment for me. Now let’s hope it actually works!

Happy Earth Day! I remember in elementary school having a whole week or so dedicated to this holiday. Now that I’m all grown up and in the real world, no one seems to care. Well, I want to bring Earth Day back. I’m going to walk to the gym and the post office today, water my little plants, and maybe even pick up some litter. It’s the thought that counts, right? What are you doing for earth day? Any grad gestures? Or just small acts of goodness?

(all images by me this time… veggies from my juice cleanse a while back, my journal, and a small creek from a hike in Yosemite a couple summers ago)

This is a really convicting post to write because currently my diet hasn’t been too good. The tips below are things that really work for me when I set my mind to diet. Now I want to be sure I express that there is a big difference between eating healthy, and eating to loose weight. For me unfortunately I haven’t found that those two diets are the same. These tips are about loosing weight and what works for me personally.

Putting all this out there will hopefully help me get my act together! My wedding is about 4 months away! No time to waste!

love this… (source unknown)

7 Diet Tips That Work For Me

1. Caffinate. Ok right off the bat, I know some health nuts who would disagree. But drinking a cup of coffee in the morning suppresses my appetite, and keeps me going.

2. Raspberry Ketones. You may already know about these wonder vitamins. I’m not 100% sure they work, but they’re supposed to reduce your appetite and speed up your metabolism. And they’re naturally found in Raspberries! I take 2 a day and have noticed they seem work when I combine my other diet tips. But I do realize this could all be psychosomatic.

3. No Carb. I include grains, starch, and processed sugar into the carb category. (I still eat fruit). This is the biggest factor for me. One piece of bread, and the pounds stay put. One day without carbs and my weight starts to drop. So why is it so hard?!

4. Try not to eat late. I was really good at this when I lived alone. I would come home, eat a healthy, no carb dinner by 7:30. Now that I live with a boy, my eating schedule is all messed up. I did notice that when I stopped eating by 7 or 7:30, it was easier to loose weight.

5. Fats are OK! This is the only easy part of this diet. Have as much butter, cheese and meat as you want. It might not be healthy, but I don’t see it affecting the scale like carbs do.

6. Hydrate. Water. Drink lots of it. Flush the fat out of your system—litterally!

7. Healthy snacks on hand. Throw out the chips and ice cream, and replace them with dried fruits and nuts. One of the best ways to keep me on track with this diet is to not have any carb options in the house. But you can’t starve! So go get some carrot sticks and hummus.

I feel energized by just writing this all out. If you have any diet tips PLEASE share! I need all the help I can get…

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I’m taking the Braid Creative E-Course called “Dream Client Catching: Embrace Your Expertise & Attract What You Track”. In one word, WOW. I’m so blown away by the insight Kathleen & Tara share in these 4 lessons. They have great videos, illustrations, and even worksheets! I’m on my way to finally figuring out this freelance thing. I can’t recommend Braid enough if you’re a creative entrepreneur. Read the blog, and subscribe to the newsletter, now!

Grocery shopping is one of my household tasks. If it was up to M we would eat Ramen (thankfully real Ramen at a Japanese restaurant, not Top Ramen) for at least 1 meal a day. He has a really irregular work schedule, so I never really know if he’ll be home all day, or just for dinner, or not until 3am! A couple weeks ago I stopped buying so much food, but then we just went out all the time. So I’m making a real attempt at Meal Planning. The picture above is from a recipe for Spicy Lemon Chicken Wraps that I’m going to make for dinner tonight. I’ll try to share some of my cooking adventures here from time to time. Follow my food pins here!

Since I didn’t get to go to SXSW this year, I’ve been trying to catch up on all the bands I missed. Terakaft was one I’m glad I came across. This Malian band has such a unique sound. They fascinate me with their culture and musical influences, but at the end of the day, they’re just a really talented group of guys who have make great music.

Feb 27, 2013

Our wedding cake is all designed and ordered! We’re working with Andrea of Superfine Bakery. I saw her talents on her website, and fell in love (especially with her amazing sugar flowers). She’s baking us a small 20 person cake—2 tiers of champagne cake with pistachio filling. Throughout this process I’ve learned some things and wanted to share them this week for Wedding Wednesday.

First, here’s the inspiration for our cake: white buttercream with gold sugar ribbons and real succulents!

succulent cake   //   gold ribbon cake

 5 Tips for your Wedding Cake:

1. Fondant or buttercream? We don’t particularly like the taste of fondant. I think a lot of times the way fondant is used looks unnatural and unappetizing. So I specifically looked for a baker who would frost with buttercream. That being said, I really wanted a smooth “glass finish” for the cake. So basically for it to look as perfect as fondant, but to taste better! If you aren’t as picky, by all means go for the fondant. It’s easier to work with and will hold up longer on the big day.

2. A cake to cut and desserts to serve – We couldn’t afford a huge cake to serve all our guests, but I really wanted to do the whole cake cutting thing and have a pretty white tiered cake for the photos. So we’re ordering a small delicate cake to cut, and serving our guests Sprinkles Cupcakes. M always buys me a Sprinkles Cupcake for my birthday, so it’s a way to bring in something meaningful into our reception. And I don’t think anyone will complain… Sprinkles Cupcakes are so delicious.

3. Florals from your florist – Another way we’re saving money is by ordering a few extra flowers and succulents from our florist for the cake. The florist will clean them really well, and tape up the ends to make them food safe. Then the baker or my coordinator will gently place them on the cake when it arrives. I love the way fresh florals look on cakes, don’t you?

4. Let him choose the flavor – Most likely your fiancé doesn’t care about the cake design. M really didn’t but he was excited about the different flavors. Unfortunately he had to work on the day of the cake tasting, so I brought him home a doggie bag. He sampled them all the next morning, and we chose our favorites. M is a big pistachio fan, so we’re going to have pistachio filling in our cake even though I loved the strawberry. It’s an easy way to bring him into the planning since so much of it is my decisions.

5. Cake stands – Don’t forget a cake stand! Figure out how large the base of your cake will be, and then account for 2 more inches. Also think about the lip of your cake stand. Try to choose something the baker can easily slide the cake onto. If you don’t feel like finding your own, ask your baker. She probably have one you can rent. Or think about making one based on the theme of your wedding. We’re using lots of industrial materials like wood and metal in our wedding. I think we’ll try to get creative and put something together ourselves.

M and I finished a box of Trefoils last night. It wouldn’t be so bad except we finished a box of Samoas the night before… It’s Girl Scout Cookie season, and I just can’t help myself. My favorites are Thin Mints, Trefoils, and Samoas. As I was pigging out last night, I got to thinking about the personalities of each cookie. M thinks I’m nuts, but he just doesn’t understand us bloggers…

Thin Mints are fresh, crispy and light. Trefoils are classic shortbread, buttery and sweet. And my absolute favorite Samoas are chewy, and lusciously rich. If those cookies were outfits they might look something like this:

outfits designed using Polyvore

 

Creative Connections is a great local group made up of creative women in your area. They have chapters all over the country. I will be the featured graphic designer at the next LA event which is also the holiday party! I’m so excited for this, and I wanted to let you all know. I know there are lots of creative ladies who read this blog. If you’re not in LA, go check out the Facebook page, and find an event in your area.

LA Blogger Cookie Exchange // We’re throwing another event for Los Angeles (or nearby) bloggers. This one is a cookie exchange! The rules are pretty simple, so email me at amhabbershaw[at]gmail[dot]com if you’re interested. It’s going to be Dec 16 at 2pm.

Elvis’ Christmas Album is a staple around this time of year. Just cool and classy music for the holidays. Listen to it while you’re working (like me) or turn it on during your big holiday party. You can’t go wrong with The King.

Nov 21, 2012

I always need a good playlist when I cook. And it’s so important to have great tunes playing when people come over. Something fun and light hearted, even if it’s just in the background. This playlist has a little something for everyone—oldies and newbies—that are sure to put everyone in a good mood.

Listen & Subscribe to the Entertaining & Cooking Mixtape on Spotify

Remember this photo from the Blueberry Muffin post?! You better believe we were rocking out when we baked these bad boys.

Nov 16, 2012

Yesterday we went over the menu, and today I’m sharing my decor ideas for our family day-before-Thanksgiving feast. Our dining table isn’t huge, and with 6 people sitting around it, plus all the food, I can’t go too crazy with the tablescape.

I’m planning on a simple centerpiece that we can easily move when it’s time to eat. I found the cutest little white pumpkins at Trader Joe’s and I’m planning on pairing them with some pillar candles and fresh artichokes. My dishes are plain, so a plaid table cloth will add some color and warmth. And if I have time I’d love to make a simple pinecone garland.

What do you think? Traditional, but uniquely me. That’s how I like my holiday decor.